Friday, October 10, 2008

BLaCk RoCK ROaD We'll miss YOU!


Black Rock Road....They are a great band to listen to. I had to opportunity to take a few photos for their new website. Unfortunately their lead singer Al is Leaving St. George and the Pioneer Shopper to move back east with his sweet family and be closer to his in-laws. 

If you don't know Black Rock Road they are a cover band, they find great songs and "punk" them out. Making slow songs fast and hard and fast song even faster and more fun. GOod Luck Al in all you endeavors!
This is Al he REALLY loves playing the guitar! 



Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Squish a Boob! Save a life!


October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month. 
This topic is especially close to my heart  as my sweet grandma has been battling it for a long time. Just recently she was re-diagnosed with Stage 4 Breast Cancer. She is terminal, though they don't know how long. 
Awareness is the key- If we as Grandmothers, Mothers, Aunts, and Sisters know what Breast cancer is, what to look for, and how to prevent it, we will be around a lot longer for our grandchildren, children, nieces and nephews, and siblings.

What is Breast Cancer?
Breast Cancer usually begins with the formation of a small, confined tumor. Some tumors are benign, meaning they do not invade other tissue; others are malignant, or cancerous. Malignant tumors have the potential to metastasize, or spread. Once such a tumor grows to a certain size, it is more likely to shed cells that spread to other parts of the body through the bloodstream and lymphatic system. Different types of breast cancer grow and spread at different rates; some take years to spread beyond the breast, while others move quickly. 
Men can get breast cancer, too, but they account for less that one-half of one percent of all cases. Among women, breast cancer is the most common cancer and the second leading cause of cancer deaths--behind lung cancer.

Fortunately, breast cancer is very treatable if detected early. Localized tumors can usually be treat successful before the cancer spreads; and in nine in 10 cases, the woman will live at least another five years. Experts usually consider a five year survival to be a cure.

What to look for...Warning Signs
In its early stages, breast cancer usually has no symptoms. As a tumor develops, you may note the following signs:
*Lump or thickening in or near the breast or in the underarm that persists through the menstrual cycle.
*A mass or lump, which may feel as small as a pea.
*A change in the size, shape, or contour of the breast.
*A blood-stained or clear fluid discharge from the nipple.
*A change in the feel or appearance of the skin on he breast or nipple (dimpled, puckered, scaly or inflamed).
* Redness of the skin on the breast or nipple. 
*An area that is distinctly different from any other area on either breast..
*A marble-like hardened area under the skin.
These changes may be found when performing monthly breast self-exams. By performing breast self-exams, you can become familiar with the normal monthly changes in your breasts.
Breast self-examination should be performed at the same time each month, three to five days after your menstrual period ends. if you have stopped menstruating, perform the exam on the same day each month.

Prevention...
Doctors still are not certain how you can stop breast cancer from happening in the first place. 
Regular aerobic exercise may offer some protection against a woman's risk of developing breast cancer. Studies have found that women who exercised vigorously and often were only half as likely as non-exercisers to get breast cancer. Exercise also can help women with breast cancer better tolerate the side effects of radiation or chemotherapy and can help promote a faster recovery after Surgery.
Nutrition and Diet...
Your diet can play an important role in breast cancer prevention. Dietary fats may increase your risk of developing breast cancer, and fruits, vegetables, and grains may help to reduce the risk. It's a good idea to make whole-milk dairy products, meat, and foods fried at high temperatures only occasional treats rather than staples. You can enliven your menus by sampling different kinds of fresh fruits and vegetable and basing new dishes on whole grains and legumes. This way, your bound to get plenty of fiber, along with vitamins and minerals thought to protect against breast cancer, specifically vitamins A, C, D, and E, and Calcium, Selenium, and Iodine. Some doctors recommend that breast cancer patients take antioxidant supplements.

How to Preform a Breast Self-Exam
In the mirror:
1.   Stand undressed from the waist up in front of a large mirror in a well-lit room. Look at your breasts. Don't be alarmed if they do not look equal in size or shape. Most women's breasts aren't. With your arms replaced by your sides, look for any changes in size, shape or position, or any changes to the skin of the breasts. Look for any skin puckering, dimpling, sores or discoloration. Inspect your nipples and look for any sores, peeling or change in the direction of the nipples.
2.   Next, place you hand on your hips and press down firmly to tighten the chest muscles beneath your breasts. Turn from side to side so you can inspect the outer part of your breasts.
3.   Then bend forward toward the mirror. Roll your shoulders and elbows forward to tighten your chest muscles. Your breasts will fall forward. Look for any changes in the shape or contour of your breast.
4.   Now, Clasp your hands behind your head and press your hands forward. Again, turn from side to side to inspect your breasts' outer portions. Remember to inspect the border underneath your breasts. You may need to lift your breasts with your hand to see this area.
5.   Check your nipples for discharge (fluid). Place your thumb and forefinger on the tissue surrounding the nipple and pull outward toward the end of the nipple. Look for any discharge. Repeat on your other breast.
In the shower
6.   Now, it's time to feel for changes in the breast. It is helpful to have our hands slippery with soap and water. Check for any lumps or thickening in your underarm area. Place your left hand on your hip and reach with your right hand to feel in the left armpit. Repeat on the other side.
7.   Check both sides for lumps or thickenings above and below your collarbone.
8.   With hands soapy, raise one arm behind your head to spread out the breast tissue. Use the flat part of our fingers from the other hand to press gently into the breast. Follow an up-and-down pattern along the breast, moving from bra line to collarbone. Continue the pattern until you have covered the entire breast. Repeat on the other side. 
Lying down
9. Next, lie down and place a small pillow or folded towel under your right shoulder. Put
your right hand behind you head. Place your left hand on the upper portion of your right breast
with fingers together and flat. Body lotion may help to make this part of the exam easier.
10. Think of your breasts as a face on a clock. Start at 12 o'clock and move toward 1 o'clock
in small circular motions. Continue around the entire circle until you reach 12 o'clock again. Keep
your fingers flat and in constant contact with your breast. When the circle is complete, move in
one inch toward the nipple and complete another circle around the clock. Continue in the pattern
until you've felt the entire breast. Make sure you feel the upper outer areas that extend in your armpit.
11. Place your fingers flat and directly on top of your nipple. Feel beneath the nipple for any
changes. Gently press your nipple inward. It should move easily.

All in All Summary...
Early detection, catching the disease and treating it early in its development when it is the most treatable remains proper strategy for better cancer outcome. The following is a common strategy, but ask your doctor exactly what you should do to help prevent breast cancer or find it early:
*Check our breast once a month, three to five days after your menstrual period ends. Have a thorough medical checkup once a year, and have mammograms every one to two years if you are aged 40 or older. Beginning at 50, yearly mammograms are recommended. Start mammograms earlier if you have a family history of breast cancer.
*Build your diet around fruit, vegetables, grains, and fish.
*If you use contraception, ask your doctor about the pros and cons of birth control pills.
*If you are near or in menopause, ask your doctor if you should use hormone replacement therapy to treat menopause symptoms. Studies suggest that hormone replacement can increase the risk of breast cancer. You and your doctor can make this decision based on your risk of breast cancer.

I'm not really sure that too many people are reading my blog, but even if it makes even just one more person More aware of themselves and of breast cancer, I feel my time was worth it. Also a special thank you to WebMD for the information and pre-research.
 

Friday, October 3, 2008

WE LoVe ShOWers!

Jackson has a new Love....It is taking a shower. He loves them, He has so much fun. He never has really liked taking a bath but he has never disliked the bath either. He really loves Showers. He gets his "puffy" and HIS body wash, not Mama's or Daddy's but HIS. He thinks it is so funny to let the water run from his head onto his face. He says "it tick-os mom" 

We'Ve MoVEd

Yes! WE have finally done it. We found an affordable and Much Larger Home. It even has a pantry AND a storage room. We even have an oven with a digital readout, and get this, an oven Light. (Yeah, I know all you Bay Meadows Gals are Jealous.)lol  The kids bedrooms are smaller but Ben and My room is MUCH bigger. Plus there is an extra bathroom and nearly 500sqft more then the old place. We are super lucky and very happy.
 When we found out we were moving, we had been taking boxes to the new place here and there.  Then finally the weekend came.....we were moving, and it ALMOST turned into a HUGE bust. The day before I had gone to InstaCare because I thought I was having appendicitis, Ben's friend who had a truck and trailer had to go to Cedar City that morning for his brother, and Ben's brothers never showed. I was really discouraged.....and then my brother, Chris, came. What a stud. He showed up as promised with his truck. But after one load though he needed to head home, because his wife Stephanie had a Clinical and he needed to take care of his 10 month old Tayleigh. So then I was bummed again. Less than an hour after Chris left, he was back, this time with Stephanie and Tayleigh in tow. And I ain't going to lie, I was a little worried, because our house was totally torn apart from moving and really dirty.  Stephanie was on the phone when she walked in and was talking to her sister, Nicole, and Brother-in-law, Kevin, and they offered to come and help us move since they had their dads truck and Wesley was with them. Yes! Can you believe it? They were willing to help us move on their weekend off. How lucky were we! So we loaded up Chris' Truck and loaded up Kevin's truck and we were practically moved (except the big stuff. i.e. bed's dressers couches etc...) and as soon as Ben and I got back to the house here came Ben's Friend, John, with his trailer, so we loaded up the big stuff and we were done! Lots of help from lots of people. Thanks Guys for helping.
 As I was unpacking the other day, I was thinking about how we were going to afford groceries this week, we were already way over budget from all the extra expenses that go along with moving. (Extra Gas, Eating out, Switching the Utilities, etc.) I started unpacking some boxes that had food in them. As I was putting things away in the Pantry and in the Store Room I was shocked at how much food we actually had! We don't even need to go shopping. We have plenty of food in the house already. I really feel like Heavenly Father blessed us with "more food". Whether He helped me with my PERCEPTION of how much we REALLY had or He PHYSICALLY blessed us with more food. I am Super thankful. I'm thankful to be in a new house, for good friends willing to help when they don't have to, and more food then I thought.




BYU Opener Trip

My Dad. He is Awesome. He loves BYU and happens to be a Season Ticket holder. Every year for the first BYU home Game he has purchases tickets (for those who want to go) and gets hotel room for each of our families and T-Shirts!. This year just the guys and Stacey went to the game, My Mom, Stephanie and I kept Tayleigh and Jackson and went shopping.

Check out the hotties in MY family. Yep, they pretty much are all studs, Except Stacey she is a Stud-ette.(Is that a Word?) 

We invested in a Protable DVD Player this trip. Let me tell you.....Anyone who is traveling with kids, NEEDS a prortable DVD player. It made the trip so nice, and Jackson got to watch The Incredible the whole way.


Swimming....Jackson LOVES to swim. He is wearing one of those body floaties that make kids look really buff like Superman. (which I found on Sale at Wal-Mart for $5, yep $5) When the guys got back from the game and we were back from shopping the power went out in the entire hotel! Not just for a minute or two but for over 2 hours. We were headed to get candles and flashlights when all of a sudden it powered back up. 



MINgling mOmS!

I know....Mingling Mom's was in August. But the END of August. Give me a break!
For those of you who don't know what Mingling Moms is it is group of moms that participate on SouthernUtahMoms.com (which is Sponsored by the Spectrum.) and they get together every so often and eat good food have a guest speaker and well, just Mingle. 
We had such a great time at the August Mingling Moms. It was held at the Painted Pony in Ancestor Square. We had a guest speaker featuring Karen Mead of Sound Health (non-profit). She Specializes in helping children with Autism, ADD & ADHD. Everything that she does is Holistic, from what was presented it seems like it is a pretty good alternative to all the medicines that some kids take just to deal with the problem. Oh yeah, and did I mention how Fabulous that food was? All of it was Spectacular! They served us Phyllo Bake Brie (berry compote, roasted garlic), a Mixed Greens Salads with toasted walnuts, apples, bleu cheese, and their famous House Vinaigrette,  Also some bacon wrapped shrimp served on a tomato and a Pesto and some white stuff I can't remember what it was but I think it was some type of soft cheese, and also this thing with Tuna, and fresh Ginger with Avocado, and them some fresh Asparagus wrapped in Ham with baby tomatoes. and how could I forget the dessert....All the food looked so beautiful it was hard to eat, but after one bite it was so good it didn't matter anymore!



 


Here is our Speaker Karen Mead.


See what I mean About the food being to pretty. But believe me it was SO good


And the fantastic Shrimp with Pesto and the white stuff.

Wednesday, October 1, 2008

Aunt Stacey

This blog is dedicated to my Awesome lil' sis Stacey.
She is such an amazing young lady. I am so excited to have her living with me while she figures out her future and what she want to do for a Career. She is a great example not only to our little brother Joey but also to me. She is extremely talented, and never does anything 1/2 way.
She has such an amazing and strong spirit and you can't help but want to know her. I love ya Stace.....Thanks for being such a great sister, daughter, Aunt and Friend. (oh yeah, Happy Birthday Last week too)